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I am rejigging livejournal, given what i am using it for. This is going to upset some people.

{Me takes a deep breath}

All of you know that I have had issues for some time with politics and grapevine gossip within the Camarilla, and its impact on my marriage. The saga has continued, not through malice, but through concern, which I do understand.

I know that there are those of you out there worried about me.

But this space is for me to reflect, and as a result I do not pull many punches within this space. As a result, I have removed a selection of people that I know pass on information, and talk about my depression and anxiety, in some cases to Stephen.

Not wishing to provide too much information or fodder for that, because of the context of my writing it is not designed for being passed on. I find it upsetting when this happens. Its why I am up this late, with the sense of my heart being in my throat.

So, if you have been removed, it does not mean I do not like you, merely that I am more comfortable with the content of my journal being kept private, and specific to a closer group of people. When I write in here, sometimes I am angry, frustrated, and need to get the emotion out. So I do. That does not mean I am comfortable with the content of posts, or things I have said personally, on IRC, or any chat program, to be passed on or talked about to those around me, or to Stephen.

I will talk to Stephen myself. No one needs to do it for me. Same with everyone else who has been told things 'for my own good'.

I hope thats not too harsh - I am not wanting to be harsh, merely clear.

Date: 2009-01-07 01:36 pm (UTC)

Date: 2009-01-07 01:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
As always, you need to do what makes *you* feel safe. And I will not be hurt or upset if you need to cut down and I'm part of the cutting.

Date: 2009-01-07 02:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Babe, You need To Feel Safe. To That End, Do What You Need To Do, You Have My Support Regardless, Love You. Hold On, We Both Know It Gets better.♥♥♥

Date: 2009-01-08 03:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Do what you need to do to be safe, helathy and happy hon and remember i am here anytime you want to talk its just a phone call away.

Date: 2009-01-08 08:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
As I've said before, your journal, your space. I understand your doing what you need to do, and hope that it helps. *hug*

Date: 2009-01-09 01:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am glad you said that - people often take stuff posted out there and assume too much about what they can do with it.

Just so you know, while I am good friends (at least I like to think so) with Steve - I would never pass on what you have said. It's simply not my place.

If you talk to me, I may give advice because I am a friend - but that is based as much as I possibly can on simply what you say to me. The same goes with all the friends I value.

While I met you through Steve - I believe our friendships are two different things. Meeting with you both simultaneously is convenient - but that does not mean I treat you both as the same friendship. We certainly talk about different things!

Whatever friends you choose to let in on your live journal posts is up to you. I would be honoured to be among them - but hold no malice and understand completely if I am not.

Everyone needs their space - and this is yours.


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